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You’ve probably heard that one of the best ways to release something – a memory, an experience– is to put it on paper and then slowly watch it burn.
What if I told you you could release people – old, new, you name it – too, without setting your list (or your ex) on fire, (but with all of the benefits and then some?)
The EX List is your chance to release the intimate relationships in your life that no longer serve you – on a deep, energetic level…
See, here’s the thing about intimate relationships:
Our partners are typically the people we allow to get closest to us – emotionally, physically and socially. They’re the people we share our deepest desires and dreams with, and often the people we share meals, homes, pets and even children with.
We completely rearrange our lives to let them in, and when things end, our lives shift again – sometimes viciously, drastically and dramatically. And that dramatic shift? Often leaves us heartbroken.
Betrayal is inevitable in relationships – even in the best, dreamiest ones, our exes have likely hurt us in someway. That’s because any real relationship has a very real emotional connection that’s either shattered, disconnected, or languished over when that bond breaks. That’s why even if we’re the one to call it quits, breaking up can feel like ripping off an extension of our own body.
Which, frankly, is NOT fun.
But why does it hurt so bad? In a word: ENERGY.
Here’s the deal when it comes to energy and relationships:
Have you ever had a thought about an ex (maybe even totally out the blue) and then a day or so later, they show up, call or shoot you a cryptic Facebook message?
Ever wondered why?
It’s called the sexual energy loop connection (check it out) and it’s a strong – and very real – phenomenon. The truth is, there’s a deep connection between not only our root chakra and mind (or crown chakra), but also a shared link with our lovers root, heart, and crown chakras (genitals, heart, and mind). This is one of the reasons that foul thoughts and barbs can be shot back and forth, or, you know, your ex can “feel” you’re thinking about them, and decide to reach out with a well-timed tweet about your favorite TV show, or call years after a breakup.
Here’s another way to look at it. Now, not to compare anyone’s relationship to a car wreck, but the finale of any relationship is kinda like a car wreck. And the thing about car wrecks is that BOTH parties involved end up with damage – for example, when forensic scientists look at cars that hit pedestrians they find blood on the car and paint on the victim. In relationships, we end up with figurative paint – energetic residue – from our shattered relationships all over our energetic field. That residue keeps us deeply connected to the experience of that relationship and the person involved.
So what does this all mean?
Well, it’s important to know that just because we sever a physical bond – i.e. we break up and somebody moves out – the energetic bond can still remain. Over time, it can become seriously painful holding onto old memories, regrets and attachments from our relationships – especially when all we want to do is move on!
Luckily, there’s an easy way to break the tortuous bonds that keep you chained to old flames that no longer serve you…and it doesn’t involve setting a list of your ex’s bad qualities on fire.
The EX List process is a chance to fix those damaged energy cords with an in-depth energy clearing for your past relationship(s) and/or another person involved.
The EX List can help you finally…
Here’s How it Works
A heads-up/warning: Sometimes doing this work, exes you haven’t heard from in years will crawl out of the woodwork and apologize or ask for closure themselves.
The EX List is an investment of $300 for 5-6 clearings.
Contact me for a free 15-minute chat to get started.